A little somthing to wrap up the lessons learned over the last year, and perhaps from even before, I hope you enjoy reading it.
As we grow up, we learn that even that special one person that wasn’t supposed to ever let us down probably will.
Also we will fail to meet what others expected of us.
You’ll have your heart broken and you’ll break others’ hearts.
You’ll fight with your best friend or maybe even fall in love with them.
If you fall in love with someone make them your best friend forever as well.
You’ll cry one day because time is flying by, and also enjoy moments that last forever.
So take way too many pictures, laugh too much, forgive freely, and love like you’ve never been hurt.
Life comes with no guarantees, no time outs, and no second chances.
You can’t change the past, the future is just what may happen, so make this moment the very best you can.
You just have to live life to the fullest, but remember to stop and smell the flowers along the way.
Tell someone how much they mean to you, and especially when things are troubled between you and them.
Tell someone when they have hurt you then forgive and forget, for in this we develop the strongest bonds between two people.
Speak out against anything that harms someone, for evil succeeds when good people remain silent.
Dance in the pouring rain; let it wash away your troubles.
Hold someone’s hand through the bad times as well as the good times.
Comfort a friend, with a sympathetic ear, a soft shoulder, a hug, or even some chocolate.
Just be sure to break the pieces in half to let out all the calories.
Fall asleep in your lovers arms watching the sun come up.
Stay up late with your children and let them see the stars, as goals to aim for as they grow.
Smile until your face hurts, then smile a little longer, it’s good for your complexion.
Don’t be afraid to take chances or fall in love, and when you are in love let the other person know it every chance and way you can.
But most of all live in the moment because every second you spend angry or upset is a second of happiness you can never get back.
The happiness or good is the white, but has the smallest spot of dark in it.
The bad or unhappy is black but still has a small speck of white.
This reminds us that while we are here we will never have a perfect life while here, but we can come close.
Nor is there a life so bad, that there is no hope.
The middle is a curving line as there is no set mid-point; it will vary from day today.
Also acts can be good or bad depending on when they are done, and the intent they are done with.
They say trouble shared is cut in half, while happiness shared is doubled.
So my friends may your cup of joy be ever over flowing.
Happy New Year to all, and may the coming year be filled with peace, harmony and compassion to all.
December 31, 2011